What might change in high school
New Peer Groups: Your child will meet many new students from different primary schools, leading to new friendships.
Changing Friendships: Existing friendships may evolve as students grow and change, and develop new friendships.
Increased Social Pressure: There might be new expectations to fit in or make new friends.
Old friends at Different Schools: Some of your child’s primary school friends might not attend the same high school, which can feel challenging.
Tips to help make high school friendships less scary
Join Clubs or Activities: Encourage your child to join school clubs, sports, or activities they enjoy. This is a great way to meet kids with similar interests.
Practice Social Skills: Role-play with your child to practice things like starting conversations or joining group activities. This can help them feel more confident.
Ask to Be in the Same Class as Friends: If some friends are attending the same high school, ask the school for them to be in the same classes. This can make the transition easier.
Tips for keeping old friends:
Plan Regular Hangouts: Encourage your child to plan regular get -togethers with their primary school friends to keep their friendships strong.
Use Technology to Stay in Touch: Show your child how to use texting, video calls, or social media safely to keep in touch with old friends, even if they go to different schools.
It’s Okay for Friendships to Change: Remind your child that it’s normal for friendships to change as they grow. Encourage them to talk about their feelings.
Tips for Parents:
Watch Their Social Media Use: Keep an eye on your child’s social media to make sure they’re using it safely and positively.
Encourage Open Communication: Make sure your child knows they can talk to you about how they’re feeling. Listen and offer support without judgement.
Written by Hannah Broughton - Placement student from Deakin University